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Affair Recovery

Affair Recovery

Discovery collapses a shared reality. The first task is not deciding the future of the marriage — it is stabilizing the present so that a real decision becomes possible.

The first ninety days

Contain the crisis, establish honesty about what happened, and put boundaries in place that let both partners breathe. Steve works with each partner individually and together, at a pace matched to what the relationship can hold.

The longer work

Once the acute phase passes, the work turns to meaning: what the affair says about the relationship, what repair genuinely requires, and whether reconciliation or a respectful separation is the honest path forward.

For both partners

The betrayed partner needs their reality restored. The partner who strayed needs to face what they did without collapsing into shame. Both tracks run at once, and both are held with equal seriousness.

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